Growing Up Girl

In response to: "I think it's safe now" 451 days old
by growing_up_girl [Member]

Haha, of course! more…

In response to: "I'm becoming a housewife. oh god." 451 days old
by growing_up_girl [Member]

Haha noooo, I'm ok where I am!! I can't do commuting!
I had a placement in London once, for 2 weeks, and after 1 day I was like NO WAYYY am I doing this, So I quit lol.
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In response to: "I'm becoming a housewife. oh god." 451 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

I swop you for 4 weeks. No more, no less. Oh but I draw the line at sleeping with Mike! more…

In response to: "I think it's safe now" 451 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

Oh right. That kind of Sex Line Operator. I've never called one myself (why would I when I get enough at home?) so can't imagine what you may be letting yourself in for. Still if the moneys good, you can tollerate a load of perves giving their old fella what for while you tell them what you wouldn't do to them if they were in the same room and it's more…

In response to: "I think it's safe now" 451 days old
by growing_up_girl [Member]

Haha, Well I thought that I had been messaging you quite a few times, I might as well update on here!
A sex line operator - basically its those premium rate phone lines that you get in the back of magazines - and I'll be the person at the end of the line- 'phone sex' I guess.
I thought I'd give it a go ;) lol more…

In response to: "I think it's safe now" 451 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

Oh yeah. Meant to ask. What's a Sex line operator do exactly? more…

In response to: "I think it's safe now" 451 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

FOOK me. I nearly fell of my chair when I saw you posting entries again. more…

In response to: "swamped" 623 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

Seriously there are 2 things that motivate people - Money and power. As a designer I don't think your the power hungry type so money will be your driver and no qualifications = crap job = not a lot of money.

How's that for a motivational speach?

Crap I know. more…

In response to: "swamped" 623 days old
by growing_up_girl [Member]

haha, no I wasn't thinking that. more…

In response to: "swamped" 623 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

More shagging won't help motivate you to work if that's what your thinking though it might be responsible for your bad back. more…

In response to: "Better" 624 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

True it does take time but you seem to be well matched :) Plus the best are worth waiting for and you can saviour them more :)

take care :)

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In response to: "Better" 624 days old
by growing_up_girl [Member]

Thanks for reading my blog, and for the comment :)
Me and him are getting there, but it takes time.

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In response to: "Better" 624 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

I'm glad for you its the first time i have read one of your posts but i amd happy that you and mike are enjoying a loving relationship and envy you the sponteanous sex (which has always been more paasionate in my opnion lol). I hope you and mike have many more exciting times and life is good to you both :)

Take care and Be Lucky ;) more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 624 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

Well don't waste time sitting in front of the telly and shagging mikey boy half senseless. Get your pens, pencils and paper together and make a start. If I remember right you had a website with some of you work on and if my memory serves me correctly, what I saw was quite impressive.

You shouldn't worry too much about people already in more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 625 days old
by growing_up_girl [Member]

Aww thanks, I've a really massive head now that you have said those things.
I still have yet to put these thoughts onto paper and in research though.
In my first 2 years of uni, I was very strong at research, I got really high marks for research, but now... possibly because of what has happened, I can't seem to put pen or mind to paper more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 625 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

For fucks sake you have been thinking about things. Not many people give the design and layouts of their favorite read a second thought but you obviously do and your right to do so for the reasons you mentioned. I'm impressed.

Unfortunately costs and the onset of digital delivery has already started to stiffle creativity in print. Tha more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 626 days old
by growing_up_girl [Member]

I think magazines are more personal. The magazine I buy from abroad- IdN is a deisng magazine, and it's amazing, each issue always has pull out and different weights/textures of papers, have spot varnished images, includes a dvd, and often has weird quirky things like the images of an article will be folded up and in an envelope in the middle of t more…

In response to: "Better" 626 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

This post made me chuckle. I read the bit about you getting hot at work and thought 'Hello. Here we go, She's jumping on Mike at work now'. And then you go and dash my assumption and tell me your only going out for a smoke.

I then read on and see we're back on track with the amazing sex you enjoyed Sunday evening. Lucky bastard. I have more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 626 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

I can't tell you how good it is to hear a person of your age say they like magazines becasue everything is slowly moving on-line and if we don;t keep buying mags, publisher will just close them and move everything to a digital format.

Let me know if you need any info re your Uni project. Whilst your right, my job doesn't get me involve more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 629 days old
by growing_up_girl [Member]

Your job sounds good. I love magazines, I subscribe to 2 at the moment, one is computer arts project, and the other one is IdN- a magazine from overseas, so it's really painful on the old bank account, but I love it.
I'm guessing your job deals more with figures and stuff rather than the design and layout- which is what I'm interested. I'm re more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 629 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

You haven't heard of Reverend and the makers? You must of done, or at least you must have heard their most successful song. It's that one that goes, 'He said he loves me, he said he needs me, he said to Kealey, he thinks I'm special'. Anyway the gig was blinding thanks and the support band (Twisted Wheel) are one for the future. Remember you heard more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 630 days old
by growing_up_girl [Member]

Grooming lol. By the way you saying that has totally pulled something off my mind. I was trying to think of the word 'grooming' the other day when I was explaining something to someone, but all I could get in my head was 'stroking' and I knew that wasn't the right word lol.
That has been bugging me since then.

I hope you have fun more…

In response to: "A Week away" 630 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

I'm glad to hear it. Mens men are a dying breed in this PC world of ours. more…

In response to: "A Week away" 630 days old
by growing_up_girl [Member]

Haha, no he is quite the manly man. I think he may have ended up that way because he saw how much I was hurting?
The only thing he stresses about his appearance is his hair, but otherwise he doesn't care about coming home covered in mud, farting, sweating everywhere after football, and all that other disgusting stuff men do, lol. more…

In response to: "A Week away" 631 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

A women! Crying! For no apparent reason! Surely you jest?

Considering what you've been/going through, I think it will take some time for you to feel comfortable with things again and perhaps you and Mike should expect more of the same? I have to say I'm surprised to hear that Mike ended up in tears too. In my experience that's not norm more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 631 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

I'm grand thanks. Work is a bit over loaded at the moment but nothing I can;t cope with or been through before.

You hadn't mentioned you were off for a week away and I was begining to wonder if you were all right. It even crossed my mind that you might have either decided to leave the blog alone again or perhaps Mike knew corresponded more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 631 days old
by growing_up_girl [Member]

Sorry lol, I don't know if I mentioned I was going away for a week?
How have you been? more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 637 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

I'm taking your silence this week as a sign that your feeling better about Mike and the whole situation?. more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 640 days old
by growing_up_girl [Member]

He told me about it, he had already denied the request before he told me, so I'm glad about that.
I am feeling smug too haha. more…

In response to: "Who'd use facebook to play mind-games?" 641 days old
by Fentyke [Member]

Can't comment on Facebook as I've never used it. It strikes me that there are 2 ways of looking at her invite. She could be trying to get back at you both/hurt you both etc or it could be she's just trying to get and keep something for herself, something which she could never have hoped to have i.e. Mike

Obviously if it's the former ig more…